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Most dating books tell you what not to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you can do.In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey - relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love - reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love.Matthew Most dating books tell you what not to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you can do.In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey - relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love - reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love.Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success.

Many of Matthew's male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance.From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew's insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she's been waiting for. Being a male, I read this book out of curiosity and I was surprised how good it was. It deals primarily with inner game and attitude and most of it can be applied to both men and women. Therefore, I believe it is actually too narrowly marketed to female readers. There are some passages that deal with 'the inner lives' of men and from a male perspective they resonated with me.

I can now better understand why previous relationships of mine did not work out. I very much enjoyed that Matthew does no Being a male, I read this book out of curiosity and I was surprised how good it was. It deals primarily with inner game and attitude and most of it can be applied to both men and women. Therefore, I believe it is actually too narrowly marketed to female readers. There are some passages that deal with 'the inner lives' of men and from a male perspective they resonated with me. I can now better understand why previous relationships of mine did not work out. I very much enjoyed that Matthew does not add fuel to the fire of the battle of the sexes, but instead shows that men are in many ways just as vulnerable as women.

This book's approach reminds me of that old Steve Martin comedy bit, 'How you can have one MILLION dollars, and NEVER pay taxes.first, get a million dollars. Now-'The book is described as providing dating tips that still let you be you, and don't require any gamesmanship to meet and keep a quality man; neither claim turns out to be true. In a nutshell, the book's how-to can be boiled down to this:1. Get an amazing, irresistible life.2. Be an amazing, irresistible This book's approach reminds me of that old Steve Martin comedy bit, 'How you can have one MILLION dollars, and NEVER pay taxes.first, get a million dollars. Now-'The book is described as providing dating tips that still let you be you, and don't require any gamesmanship to meet and keep a quality man; neither claim turns out to be true. In a nutshell, the book's how-to can be boiled down to this:1.

Get an amazing, irresistible life.2. Be an amazing, irresistible person.3. Stop being insecure.4. Chat and flirt with everything that moves, employing these specific strategies, types of come-ons, text messages and actions (which may totally seem like gamesmanship and manipulation, but trust the author, it's not).Follow those four simple steps and success is assured. An actual excerpt from the book-I'm not kidding. This is a great book, but it's more of a broad 'this is how you should live your life' philosophy book.

So if you're expecting a detailed how-to-capture-a-man-step-by-step manual, you'll be disappointed.A lot of what Hussey says is common sense, but some girls (like me) who are kind of clueless with men need to hear it. I like that the tone of this book is very hopeful and optimistic, and his advice is two-fold: not only is it about improving your dating life, but it's also about imp This is a great book, but it's more of a broad 'this is how you should live your life' philosophy book. So if you're expecting a detailed how-to-capture-a-man-step-by-step manual, you'll be disappointed.A lot of what Hussey says is common sense, but some girls (like me) who are kind of clueless with men need to hear it. I like that the tone of this book is very hopeful and optimistic, and his advice is two-fold: not only is it about improving your dating life, but it's also about improving yourself as a human being.I appreciate his advice because 1.) he's a man, so he knows what he's talking about, 2.) his advice fills in some gaps for me, 3.) weirdly, some of his advice is actually conclusions that I had already reached based on my own experience, yet he takes those conclusions a bit farther than I've been able to do by myself.I learned a lot from this book.

I deducted one star because I was hoping for a bit more in terms of how-to and instructions, but I'm not sure how Hussey could have pulled that off since every guy and girl and dating situation is different. Overall, this is a great, empowering read that I'd recommend to pretty much every single gal out there. Most of the advice in this book was geared towards making you feel like you have to be a Manic Pixie Dream Girl in order to land a guy. There's a lot of unsettling talk about constantly sexually validating your man in order to keep him (or else he'll cheat!). I'd say at least 80% of this book is useless or hurtful. I have a particular problem with Hussey's repeated insinuations that if you are good enough, you can tame that bad boy who doesn't want to commit.

Read: it's your fault he's not committi Eh. Most of the advice in this book was geared towards making you feel like you have to be a Manic Pixie Dream Girl in order to land a guy. There's a lot of unsettling talk about constantly sexually validating your man in order to keep him (or else he'll cheat!).

I'd say at least 80% of this book is useless or hurtful. I have a particular problem with Hussey's repeated insinuations that if you are good enough, you can tame that bad boy who doesn't want to commit. Read: it's your fault he's not committing.I did take a couple good things from here.

The idea of being a High Value Woman, while played out to ridiculous lengths by Hussey, is a good concept at it's core. I do think it's helpful to realize that being too available, and not letting someone work for you a bit, might be creating a bad dynamic in your relationships. I liked the chunk at the very end about values and standards - I wished the whole book had more material like this because that section was awesome. I added those kernels to my 'self-help' arsenal.I'd say read it if you're trying to improve and learn about yourself and you have the time.

Don't read it if you take everything to heart and can't filter out the bullshit, or if you can only fit in a book here and there. For a truly helpful book, read Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love.

That book is based on scientific studies and works to build your esteem rather than make you think you don't have a boyfriend/husband because there's something wrong with you. What if I told you there was a simple, concise, no-nonsense manual on how to find, attract and keep your ideal man? Sounds too good to be true? Well, such a book exists; it is written by the world’s leading relationship coach and love guru, Matthew Hussey.From the very first word typed in the introduction, the Get the Guy book is launched from the very sobering platform of “love is hard.” A very clear and accurate portrait of love is etched across the canvas of the first page; just r What if I told you there was a simple, concise, no-nonsense manual on how to find, attract and keep your ideal man?

Sounds too good to be true? Well, such a book exists; it is written by the world’s leading relationship coach and love guru, Matthew Hussey.From the very first word typed in the introduction, the Get the Guy book is launched from the very sobering platform of “love is hard.” A very clear and accurate portrait of love is etched across the canvas of the first page; just reality, a no-nonsense description of love that is devoid of happily ever afters, handsome princes and the one. The message of this book is distinctly outlined in proceeding paragraphs. The book isn’t just about ‘finding a guy’, it’s a manual that empowers women to live the life they were born to live; a life so abundant that out of its overflow it creates opportunities to connect with many individuals from all walks of life. The author takes the time to explain how he came from being a teenager who somehow ended up with whoever would have him and watched others get the girl they wanted; to a successful relationship coach. His knowledge comes from a mixture of personal experience and the years spent coaching men in their love lives. Hussey admits that he himself is far from perfect and does make mistakes usually as a direct result from not following his own advice; as well as invaluable advice this book also contains links to videos that take the concepts to a deeper level.

Matthew’s self belief combined with his passion and zeal for life as well as his coaching products is highly contagious and is most likely, the key to his success and his growing popularity.The Get the Guy philosophy divides dating into three stages: Find the Guy, Get the Guy and Keep the Guy. Find the Guy, advises contrary to hollywood rom com’s, fairy tales, Disney movies and other romantic notions that our love lives should not be left to chance or fate. According to the author we have two options; wait or create. You remember the tall, dark and handsome commuter that you locked eyes with on the central line last week; you waited and nothing happened. He got off at the next stop and you have not seen him on the tube since.

The alternative option is to create, not too many people feel comfortable approaching a total stranger to create an engaging conversation; if you feel this way you are not alone! The key is simple, learn how to create conversations everywhere you go; Find the Guys leading principle is to talk to everyone who serves you, people around you waiting in line and to take the conversation further and to create daily rituals that involve communicating with more guys. In theory, we are exercising our social muscles and when we do come across someone of interest we are prepared to strike up a conversation. Get the Guy challenges women to raise their standards and to understand that they are a woman of high value and by cultivating certain traits is the initial step to attracting the love that we all deserve. This book divulges the psychology behind the male mind in a way that is positive and beneficial to both genders; with this understanding of the male mind along with a splash of playfulness and a touch of spontaneity accompanied with the right mind-set become the key ingredients to attracting love. Get the Guy aims to put women back in the seat of their lives in a way that leaves a man thinking and feeling like he has done something to earn her affections.The second stage to the dating process takes us deeper in our understanding of long lasting attraction by revealing a simple formula and exposing a few commonly held attraction based beliefs as myths and highlights the many pitfalls of current dating rules including ‘playing hard to get’. According to Matthew Hussey, the key to creating a great date lies in the importance or depth of value that we place on date.

You remember the cute guy that you met at your cousins party who asked you out to that dinner date; as you were preparing for the date you told yourself that he was ‘out of your league’ and stressed out about not saying the wrong thing. The date was a disaster, you spent the entire evening focusing on feeling nervous and saying everything right instead of discovering if there was any chemistry or finding a way to establish a connection. The author elegantly reminds his readers that the purpose of a date is for both parties to leave wanting more of each other instead of feeling like you have both endured an exam. Get the Guy is both informative as well as empowering; the author intelligently divulges information about the human psyche in order that both sexes understand each other and are building a relationship that fulfills both of their needs.The third and final stage to the dating process is titled ‘Keep the Guy’; this section reveals the secrets to a long and lasting relationship as well as the importance of showing vulnerability in the process of establishing and maintaining a strong connection. Keep the Guy does not contain a 5 step plan to make him commit but contains a gentle reminder of the importance in always being that amazing woman he plucked up the courage to ask on the first date, because it’s that woman he wants and will commit to. The author reveals what the single life is like for the majority of guys as well as explaining why the concept of commitment can scare a guy and highlights that you can not change a guy but you can change his perception of relationships and commitment. The book takes its readers through the process of establishing whether a potential partner is Mr Right and also reveals how to move on from heart break.

Through out the pages of the final chapters of Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey, encourages the readers to remain high value and to maintain their standards but his message is best summed up the final words on the last page.‘Believe in your own value, and every good thing in life will follow’.Get the Guy is not just a 5 step plan to land the guy of your dreams. This resource is a logical but nonetheless empowering treasure trove of information which appeals to women from all walks of life and encourages them to live a life that is worthy of their value, maintain high standards and accept nothing less than a love life that they deserve. This book is a necessary addition for every woman’s book shelf; whether you’re single, in a relationship or married for decades there is something in this book for everyone. Get the Guy will be released in US on April 9, and will be available in major bookstores and is also available to pre-order on amazon.Reviewed by: Amelia H/orange owl media. When I started reading this book, I immediately was challenged by the thoughts being introduced. However the advice to be a woman of high value and not to settle was compelling.

No woman in her right mind wants to settle for less and that is easier said than done.Matthew goes over and beyond. Not only does he tell you want you need from his heart, he then explains the concept with his analogy about the train or other examples and quotes. Although you have to get out there and try. When I started reading this book, I immediately was challenged by the thoughts being introduced. However the advice to be a woman of high value and not to settle was compelling. No woman in her right mind wants to settle for less and that is easier said than done.Matthew goes over and beyond.

Not only does he tell you want you need from his heart, he then explains the concept with his analogy about the train or other examples and quotes. Although you have to get out there and try.

What I find heart-warming is you can feel him prodding you along, hoping the best for you and even there to say what might have gone wrong.I love that he firmly places the ball in your court. This book is a keeper. This will make a believer out of you whether you heart has been broken before or you seem to be stuck in the friend zone. He covers it all with brilliance and those videos are an added bonus. Here's to you find, getting and keeping the guy!

See you at the finish line.I plan to invite Mr. Hussey to my wedding because it will be thanks to him. It's a basic book telling you what you already know, but somehow have forgotten along the way. While the videos were cute (I could directly open them on my Kindle) what made them annoying was that Hussey kept saying, 'Like this video.

Now buy more man getting secrets!' It just had a scam feel to it, which I didn't like.Basically this book is asking you to be more open, take more chances, and not let men walk all over you. You know this, I know this, but sometimes you need to hear it It's a basic book telling you what you already know, but somehow have forgotten along the way.

While the videos were cute (I could directly open them on my Kindle) what made them annoying was that Hussey kept saying, 'Like this video. Now buy more man getting secrets!' It just had a scam feel to it, which I didn't like.Basically this book is asking you to be more open, take more chances, and not let men walk all over you. You know this, I know this, but sometimes you need to hear it from someone else as some of the dating advice we hear today is stupid. So it's good to have that reality check and this book does fulfill that role, but again the video links to more promotional products is what takes away from the value of the book.Sure go to a face to face event for fun, but don't feel obligated to buy the extra stuff.

This book should do. Is it the best dating book of all time?

I don't know, but the advice resonated with me. The pitch to buy extra stuff turned me off. 18 May 2013Admittedly, I am a cynic when it comes to matters of the heart and self-help books on relationships don't even make a blip on my radar of books to read. However, after watching Matthew Hussey on, his insight resonated deeply with me and my curiosity was piqued by Get the Guy: How to Find, Attract, and Keep Your Ideal Mate. I probably would have hesitated to pick up the book if it weren't for my best high recommendations, and I'm sure glad she nudged me to read it.18 May 2013Admittedly, I am a cynic when it comes to matters of the heart and self-help books on relationships don't even make a blip on my radar of books to read. However, after watching Matthew Hussey on, his insight resonated deeply with me and my curiosity was piqued by Get the Guy: How to Find, Attract, and Keep Your Ideal Mate. I probably would have hesitated to pick up the book if it weren't for my best high recommendations, and I'm sure glad she nudged me to read it.Matthew Hussey is the kind of guy every girl needs in her corner.

His positive energy and beliefs makes you feel like he's your own personal cheerleader. This isn't a book about how to manipulate a guy to get what you want. Rather, he's cheering you on to be the best person you can be to live a fulfilling life. All the arseholes will be weeded out because you are too valuable to waste your time on them. Once you recognize and believe in your value, you will find the right guy worthy of joining you on your life's adventures.Coming fresh off a break-up, I oddly found the Keep the Guy section more pertinent to my life at present. I have zero desire to get any guy since I'm deep in the heartbreak, but Keep the Guy helped me learn my value. The How to Move on From Heartbreak had some empowering encouragements as well.Some of my favorite quotes:Every interaction with another human being is a possible gateway to some new world or experience, which could, in turn, introduce you to the love of your life.Voltaire: 'Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good.'

Aristotle said, ' We are what we repeatedly do.' If we want to embody and exhibit our best qualities, we have to be living them.Fall in love with the man in front if you, not his potential. (we all know this but when do we ever listen?!)The pain doesn't come from losing your soul mate, but from the disappointment that this guy wasn't your soul mate.He failed to live up to your values and standards, so how could he be your soul mate?Matthew Hussey's writing is intelligent and approachable. He genuinely seems like he wants the very best in life for you. He just seems like a kind, honest-to-goodness nice guy.

Whoever lands this guy will be one lucky lady. I hope that he writes a book for men on how to get the ladies because I'm intrigued with what his viewpoints will be. If you think this is a book for only women, you must be wrong.Whether you want to seek a man or a woman of your life, lessons taught by Matthew are true for almost every one who longs to find the right partner, and build a life of fulfillment with your partner.I won't say much about the content. But the book left me with whole new different points of views on how relationship works, and how we should be prepared, creating options for our relationship life, not just waitin If you think this is a book for only women, you must be wrong.Whether you want to seek a man or a woman of your life, lessons taught by Matthew are true for almost every one who longs to find the right partner, and build a life of fulfillment with your partner.I won't say much about the content. The book was better than I expected, but not by much.

The methods presented are the ever annoying catch-22 plans. Don't be too intimidating, but be 'high-value.'

Be sexy, but don't make him think you're a slut. Be straightforward, but in a flirty, non-threatening way!! Not rating it 1 star because the first part of 'how to meet guys' is mostly solid advice.

Namely 'don't live in a hole, the more people you meet the likelier you are to meet 'the one.' And that meeting and being friendly to The book was better than I expected, but not by much. The methods presented are the ever annoying catch-22 plans. Don't be too intimidating, but be 'high-value.' Be sexy, but don't make him think you're a slut.

Be straightforward, but in a flirty, non-threatening way!! Not rating it 1 star because the first part of 'how to meet guys' is mostly solid advice. Namely 'don't live in a hole, the more people you meet the likelier you are to meet 'the one.' And that meeting and being friendly towards people is a great way to build happiness in general, regardless of who you end up meeting.' The rest really irritated me. I'm not going to monitor or feel in charge of a man's emotions. If by not accepting a jacket i'm sending the wrong signal (apparently its that I don't value your contribution.

But in reality if I valued your effort, I would just say it and politely decline. Not take the jacket demurely, and be so thankful that I have a strong man to give me a jacket when I'm not cold). I discovered the author through Facebook ads. I was curious, but not about to be duped into an expensive program by clickbait and psychological marketing techniques, so I checked this book out of the library.The author gives some genuinely helpful tips about how to meet and talk to more people, making eye contact, and so forth. However, I later noticed that most of the quality content in this book was copied from Henry Cloud’s How to Get a Date Worth Keeping.

Several of the chapter t I discovered the author through Facebook ads. I was curious, but not about to be duped into an expensive program by clickbait and psychological marketing techniques, so I checked this book out of the library.The author gives some genuinely helpful tips about how to meet and talk to more people, making eye contact, and so forth. However, I later noticed that most of the quality content in this book was copied from Henry Cloud’s How to Get a Date Worth Keeping. Several of the chapter titles, main concepts and illustrations were taken directly from that book, written 10 years earlier by a psychologist, which makes more sense as to why he would know what he’s talking about.

I don’t remember seeing any citations or acknowledgements.The approach of the two authors could not be more different. Hussey writes for a secular audience going to hookups and parties. Cloud writes as a Christian for people frustrated with their dating patterns who hope to find meaningful long term relationships. Hussey gives formulas and techniques to control the situation to get what you want. He adds his own tips and tricks for how to flirt, which end up sounding like telling women how to be that overconfident player.

Cloud advocates for dating as a process of learning and growing rather than being overly consumed by the end result. The point is to get to know oneself and others and give them a good experience on the way, including becoming more mindful of aspects of one’s inner life that need to be resolved to avoid continually making the same mistakes in dating.Hussey’s book frustrated me because he assumed that the problem with women is just that they don’t chat up random strangers.

He ignores the fact that women have often experienced that same behavior as sexual harassment, and whereas men have privilege and power, women who act like that are at risk of being disrespected and told “she was asking for it.” While Cloud still encouraged people to engage strangers in conversation, he encouraged people to be safe and wasn’t pushing pickup lines. He also helped address fears or barriers such as these in a way that brings self-understanding and compassion.I will say that Hussey knows how to “get the BUY”.

At the end of every other chapter, he includes a link to a video, which ends with a call to buy his coaching program. But the reader ends up feeling strung along and used rather than genuinely served, which I’m afraid might be how people would feel if they were on the receiving end of someone implementing his self-centered dating advice. I liked the whole thing about being social and chatting up everyone. After that, I personally just could not get over the fact that every single reference was geared toward the Caucasian population. Every time a woman was described, the visualization was that of a white woman. All of the men who were described, also that of white men. I know it may not matter to most and many may not understand, but, as a woman of color, it's nice to know that you see, hear and recognize women of color.

It was d I liked the whole thing about being social and chatting up everyone. After that, I personally just could not get over the fact that every single reference was geared toward the Caucasian population. Every time a woman was described, the visualization was that of a white woman. All of the men who were described, also that of white men. I know it may not matter to most and many may not understand, but, as a woman of color, it's nice to know that you see, hear and recognize women of color.

It was distracting to continue listening to how men are attracted to women who's characteristics mean that they're white. If the audience you are speaking to does not include me, I am not inclined to continue in the audience.Also, thought the Don Draper reference was a bit weird considering the extramarital affairs.It has some helpful bits but overall, this book was not for me. Left me more frustrated and annoyed than anything. I love this book!

Despite being primarily a 'dating' advice book, I got so much more from Matthew. He really drills into you the idea of being high-value (which he knows we inherently are.) What I loved about this concept is that it translates to many other areas of life.

I feel like the contents of this book are what everyone knows to be true, but no one wants to admit to themselves. It offers many practical suggestions for confusing situations, many of which I wish I had used myself in the pas I love this book! Despite being primarily a 'dating' advice book, I got so much more from Matthew. He really drills into you the idea of being high-value (which he knows we inherently are.) What I loved about this concept is that it translates to many other areas of life. I feel like the contents of this book are what everyone knows to be true, but no one wants to admit to themselves.

It offers many practical suggestions for confusing situations, many of which I wish I had used myself in the past. I found the advice in this book to be so practical I plan in giving it a re-read something soon just to soak it all in. I really couldn't find any thing in this that I disagreed with. So thankful to have read this book! Okay, go ahead and judge. There's a hot-pink cover emblazoned with a cheesy graphic that practically begs you to.

But like a few other entrants in the how-to-date genre (If the Buddha Dated, Why You're Not Married Yet, and even He's Just Not That Into You), this book contains a lot of good information/support on establishing boundaries, remaining true to oneself, and communicating needs clearly and consistently in relationships of all stripes, not just romantic ones.I'd be very (VE DON'T JUDGE. Okay, go ahead and judge. Tera ghagra song mp3 download. There's a hot-pink cover emblazoned with a cheesy graphic that practically begs you to. But like a few other entrants in the how-to-date genre (If the Buddha Dated, Why You're Not Married Yet, and even He's Just Not That Into You), this book contains a lot of good information/support on establishing boundaries, remaining true to oneself, and communicating needs clearly and consistently in relationships of all stripes, not just romantic ones.I'd be very (VERY) leery of using any of the suggested lines/replies/come-ons in here verbatim. I'm not really 100% sold on some of the tactics and rationales. But the central idea of treating men—even ones you might want to have see you naked—like.people., is a good and important one.

And on top of having a life, a backbone, a whole collection of interests, and an insistence on to thine own self being true, that also means getting past one's comfort zone and actually talking to people. (Or lady-people, if that's how you roll.)Bonus points to Hussey for the best way of summing up the ridiculousness of not doing your best in an interview situation: why are you ascribing extra greatness to them and why are you looking at yourself as less-than? (I'm paraphrasing, and poorly, but it's very well rendered in the book. I think that credit even goes to a friend of his, who put the question to Hussey when he was going to network for some big TV gig.)So, great on overall, feel-the-fear-and-say-it-anyway motivation; a little iffy on a specifically romantic-driven game plan. I know, I should have been embarrassed to be reading this book, let alone writing a public review about it.but NO! Lets cut the bullshit!

We are all looking for love and the way we communicate with eachother matters a lot in the quality of our lives. Don't get offended by the title, if you just want yo be better everyday and understand your loved ones better, definitely go for this book. I learnt a loooot of small tips that make huge differences in relationships and I'm so excited to use them I know, I should have been embarrassed to be reading this book, let alone writing a public review about it.but NO! Lets cut the bullshit!

We are all looking for love and the way we communicate with eachother matters a lot in the quality of our lives. Don't get offended by the title, if you just want yo be better everyday and understand your loved ones better, definitely go for this book. I learnt a loooot of small tips that make huge differences in relationships and I'm so excited to use them in my everyday life as of now. This guy is just trying to help you, I suggest you start being honest with yourself!;). I have been following Mat since his early videos on youtube so for me the middle part of the book was a little boring because I kinda knew most of what he had to say.yet, most of the opening and ending chapters were relatively new and I can say that overall it was a nice read.

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While the main focus of the book is on 'getting the guy' it still offers strategies on becoming a woman of value and building a social circle in general.at some parts of the book I was reminded with 'act like a I have been following Mat since his early videos on youtube so for me the middle part of the book was a little boring because I kinda knew most of what he had to say.yet, most of the opening and ending chapters were relatively new and I can say that overall it was a nice read. While the main focus of the book is on 'getting the guy' it still offers strategies on becoming a woman of value and building a social circle in general.at some parts of the book I was reminded with 'act like a lady, think like a man' and 'why men love bitches'. Mat mentions a lot of the core dating values these two books communicated.

Thats also why the book was kindda boring for me and probably for some of those who have read a lot into the dating literature, but for a newbie, the book is light and straight forward so you'll probably find it very interesting. This book is amazing.

Interacting with guys as a married woman is so different from interacting with them as a single one! It's been extremely helpful to have this book to learn how to talk to guys again especially now that texting and online dating are so big. Something Matthew emphasizes is being a woman of value with high standards that you stick to as a way of attracting the right people. I've heard this advice in church for years but was never sold on it until he presented it. His adv This book is amazing. Interacting with guys as a married woman is so different from interacting with them as a single one! It's been extremely helpful to have this book to learn how to talk to guys again especially now that texting and online dating are so big.

Something Matthew emphasizes is being a woman of value with high standards that you stick to as a way of attracting the right people. I've heard this advice in church for years but was never sold on it until he presented it. His advice makes a lot of sense and I know I'll be using this book as a reference throughout my time in the dating world.

PDF Full Get the Guy For Online.1.PDF Full Get the Guy For Online.Book DetailsAuthor: Matthew HusseyPages:Binding: Audible AudiobookBrand:ISBN:.DescriptionThis is the audiobook that single women have been waiting for! Created by the hottest dating coach on the scene, Matthew Hussey, it offers clear, honest, andpractical advice for women on how to find their ideal man - and, importantly, how to keep him. Using simple steps, Matthew guides us through the complexmaze of dating and shows us just how to find the guy, get the guy, and keep the guy.Through his work as a peak performance coach, Matthew has gained unparalleled access into what makes guys tick when it comes to women. He is now usingthis 'insider information' to advise women who have been unsuccessful in their quest for a lasting relationship with the right man.